Following is the piece written by Bernie Sanders for the Vermont Freeman newspaper in 1972 that is being blown up now. After it came to light I wrote a piece that upset many of Bernie's supporters titled "Is Bernie Sanders’ candidacy toast by his old ‘misogynistic’ essay?"
Here is the reality. I love Bernie Sanders. I am a supporter of Bernie Sanders. The piece is not a hit piece. I am simply trying to be proactive with the expectation that we examine our path.
I read the entire essay and know exactly what he is saying. The point I am trying to get across is given our corporatist media and folks that know how to spin, that one line about rape is going to be misrepresented by most. Not you but by most, including many 'Liberals' who have already weighed in.
What is more important. Bernie Sanders or a real liberal who can get the message (Bernie Sanders' message) out. As Liberals many often stay with personalities we want to will onto others instead of the policies we desperately need. Don't you agree?
Man and Woman by Bernie Sanders
A man goes home and masturbates his typical fantasy. A woman on her knees, a woman tied up, a woman abused.
A woman enjoys intercourse with her man – as she fantasizes being raped by 3 men simultaneously.
The man and woman get dressed up on Sunday – and go to Church, or maybe to their “revolutionary” political meeting.
Have you ever looked at the Stag Man, Hero, Tough magazines on the shelf of your local bookstore? DO you know why the newspapers with the articles like “Girl 12 raped by 14 men” sell so well?
Women, for their own preservation, are trying to pull themselves together. And it’s necessary for all of humanity that they do so. Slavishness on one hand breeds pigness on the other hand. Pigness on one hand breeds slavishness on the other. Men and women – both are losers. Women adapt themselves to fill the needs of men, and men adapt themselves to fill the needs of women. In the beginning there were strong men who killed the animals and brought home the food – and the dependent women who cooked it. No more! Only the roles remain – waiting to be shaken off. There are no “human” oppressors. Oppressors have lost their humanity. On one hand “slavishness,” on the other hand “pigness.” Six of one, half dozen of the other. Who wins?
Many women seem to be walking a tightrope now. Their qualities of love, openness, and gentleness were too deeply enmeshed with qualities of dependency, subservience, and masochism. How do you love – with – out being dependent? How do you be gentle – without being subservient? How do you maintain a relationship without giving up your identity and without getting strung out? How do you reach out and give your heart to your lover, but maintain the soul which is you?
And Men. Men are in pain too. They are thinking, wondering. What is it they want from a woman? Are they at fault? Are they perpetrating this man-woman situation? Are they oppressors?
The man is bitter.
“You lied to me,” he said. (She did).
“You said they loved me, that you wanted me, that you needed me. Those are your words.” (They are).
“But in reality,” he said. “If you ever loved me, or wanted me, or needed me. (all of which I’m not certain was ever true), you also hated me. You hated me – just as you have hated every man in your entire life, but you didn’t have the guts to tell me that. You hated me before you ever saw me, even though I was not your father, or your teacher, or your sex friend when you were 13 years old, or your husband. You hated me not because of who I am, or what I was to you, but because I am a man. You did not deal with me as a person – as me. You lived a lie with me, used me and played games with me – and that’s a piggy thing to do.”
And she said, “You wanted me not as a woman, or a lover, or a friend, but as a submissive woman, or submissive friend, or submissive lover; and right now where my head is I balk at even the slightest suspicion of that kind of demand.
And she said, “You’re full of ___.”
And they never made love together (which they had each liked to do more than anything) or never saw each other one more time.